Why only me ?

I am sure each one of you sometime or the other in your life has asked this question to yourself that "Why only me ?"......Why not someone else was in this situation or may be, how can someone even come to this situation.....?

The answer is not so simple.....Sometimes we don't realise that life is so complicated and more than our life our mind is so complicated to understand what is going on in our life....I sometimes wonder that if everybody gets the answer to the above question, then how easy would be for each of us to live this life with complete happiness.....

I don't agree with the fact that everything happens for a reason and one should just move on with their life. But i have my own saying ..... "We always have a reason for whatever we do in our life and if we don't have one, then we create one"......That allows a person to move on with the life. And those who are not able to find a reason either ruin their entire life finding a reason or sometimes even end it....

So, life is not just what is given to us by our parents, but it is what we do with it.....